How to Soften Towels: The Only Method You’ll Ever Need

Want to know how to soften towels naturally and make them feel like five-star hotel luxury at home? The secret is in how you wash them—no fabric softener required. In this post, I’ll walk you through the exact method I’ve been using for years (yes, including how to soften towels with vinegar and baking soda). It’s simple, effective, and will have your rough towels feeling fresh, fluffy, and fabulous again.

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The Soft Towel Origin Story: Montreal Edition

Let me take you back to my Montreal days, where I first discovered the magic of ultra-soft, hotel-worthy towels—at someone’s house. I remember drying my hands in the bathroom of one of my closest friends and thinking: Okay, what kind of wizardry is this?

Turns out, her mother was a professional cleaner at a very upscale hotel in Montreal and swore by a laundry method that didn’t include expensive detergents or mythical fabric softeners. Nope. Just vinegar, baking soda, and a little know-how. Naturally, I took notes. And I’ve been doing it ever since.

Why Your Towels Are Rough in the First Place

Before we fix the problem, let’s address what’s making your towels scratchy and stiff to begin with:

  • Fabric softener overload: Yep, it does the opposite of what you think. It coats towel fibers and reduces absorbency.
  • Detergent build-up: Using too much laundry detergent leaves residue that hardens the fabric.
  • Hard water: Minerals from hard water cling to towels, leaving them crunchy.
  • Overdrying: Too much time in the dryer can break down fibers and lead to stiffness.

The good news? We can fix all of this with a method that’s low-maintenance and totally natural.

How to Soften Towels in the Washing Machine (My Tried-and-True Method)

Here’s exactly how to soften towels with vinegar and baking soda:

What You’ll Need

  • 1/2 cup white vinegar
  • 1/2 cup baking soda
  • Your stiffest, saddest towels
  • A washing machine (front loader or top loader—either works!)
  • Dryer or drying rack

Step-by-Step Instructions

  1. First Wash – Vinegar Only
    Place your towels in the washing machine and add 1/2 cup of white vinegar directly into the drum (not the detergent drawer). No detergent here. Set to the hottest wash cycle.
  2. Second Wash – Baking Soda Only
    Once that first cycle finishes, run a second hot water cycle. This time, add 1/2 cup of baking soda. Still no detergent or softener!
  3. Dry Properly
    Toss your towels in the dryer (medium heat works best) or air dry. If possible, toss in a few dryer balls or clean tennis balls to help fluff.

FYI, I use the express cycle on my washer, which runs about 16-20 minutes. No need to run a full 45+ min cycle for this.

Pro Tip

If you’re using a front loader, just sprinkle the baking soda into the drum and pour the vinegar into the detergent compartment during the correct wash cycles. Easy!

Why This Works (A Little Laundry Science)

  • Vinegar dissolves mineral deposits and breaks down residue from detergent and fabric softeners.
  • Baking soda helps neutralize odors, balance pH, and further softens the fabric.
  • No harsh chemicals, no buildup—just fresh, absorbent, fluffy towels that actually work.

How Do Hotels Keep Towels So Soft?

It’s not magic—it’s technique. Hotels avoid fabric softeners (shocking, I know), use hot water, wash in smaller loads for thorough rinsing, and rotate towels frequently to prevent wear and tear. The method I shared above? It’s straight from the playbook of one of Montreal’s top hotel cleaning pros.

More Ways to Keep Towels Soft Over Time

Now that you’ve revived your towels, here’s how to keep them luxuriously soft:

  • Skip the fabric softener—always.
  • Use less detergent. A little goes a long way.
  • Wash towels separately from clothes. Towels love space.
  • Shake them out before drying to help fluff the fibers.
  • Don’t overdry. Remove from the dryer while slightly damp and hang to finish drying.

FAQ

Once a month is perfect for maintenance. If your towels are particularly crunchy, do the full two-step process every few washes until they bounce back.

Absolutely. Vinegar and baking soda are color-safe and won’t fade fabrics.

Yes! Just place baking soda directly in the drum and vinegar in the detergent tray (or fabric softener compartment).

It might be time to retire them. If the fibers are too broken down, no amount of TLC will bring them back.

Final Thoughts

Soft towels shouldn’t be a luxury—they should be your everyday norm. Whether you’re stepping out of a bubble bath or drying your hands after dinner, you deserve that plush, cloud-like experience. Trust me, once you try this vinegar and baking soda method, you’ll never go back to detergent-heavy, crunchy towel life again.

This method is gentle, natural, and—most importantly—it works. I’ve been doing this for years and it still amazes me every time I pull a load of soft, clean towels from the dryer.

Now go on, run your towels through their spa day.

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